Trauma, Abuse & PTSD Therapy

Trauma can affect how safe you feel in your body, relationships and everyday life. Therapy offers a confidential, paced space to understand what happened, reduce the impact of triggers, and rebuild a sense of choice and safety.

  • Private trauma therapy in London and online
  • Support for abuse, PTSD, medical trauma and relationship trauma
  • Compassionate, trauma-informed care at your pace
Private therapy in London & online
Support for trauma, abuse and PTSD therapy
Senior clinicians
Integrated care where helpful

When the past still feels present

You may recognise:

  • Feeling on edge, unsafe or easily startled
  • Flashbacks, nightmares or intrusive memories
  • Avoiding people, places, appointments or reminders
  • Feeling numb, detached or disconnected from your body
  • Shame, self-blame or difficulty trusting yourself
  • Struggling with relationships, closeness or boundaries
  • Strong reactions that feel out of proportion but hard to control
  • Feeling that you have “moved on” logically, but your body has not

Trauma can follow frightening, overwhelming, repeated or emotionally unsafe experiences. It may show up as flashbacks, anxiety, numbness, shame, avoidance, hypervigilance, relationship difficulties or feeling disconnected from yourself. Trauma therapy helps you make sense of these responses and work towards greater safety, stability and choice.

Start with a free 20-minute discovery call

A relaxed conversation to explore what’s been happening, and help you find the right support.

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Trauma support we offer

Trauma Therapy

For trauma symptoms, triggers, avoidance, emotional overwhelm or feeling unsafe.

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Abuse & Childhood Trauma Therapy

For the emotional impact of childhood abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse or domestic abuse.

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Medical Trauma Therapy

For trauma after medical procedures, diagnosis, hospitalisation, birth trauma or frightening health experiences.

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PTSD Therapy

For flashbacks, nightmares, avoidance, hypervigilance and trauma-related distress.

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Relationship Trauma & Trust Issues

For trauma that affects closeness, boundaries, communication or emotional safety.

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Trust, Betrayal & Emotional Safety

For rebuilding after betrayal, secrecy, emotional harm or broken trust.

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How trauma therapy works

1

Safety first

Therapy begins by building stability, trust and emotional pacing.

2

Triggers mapped

We identify reminders, body signals, avoidance and protective patterns.

3

Responses understood

You learn why your mind and body react as they do.

4

Processing begins

Difficult memories or emotions are approached carefully and collaboratively.

5

Choice rebuilt

The aim is more safety, connection and freedom in daily life.

Book a free 20-minute discovery call

How it works

  • A relaxed conversation to explore what’s happening and get clarity on next steps.
  • Choose a time that suits you.
  • Speak with our experienced client services team
  • Get clarity on next steps.
  • No pressure. No obligation.
Confidential
Evidence-led
Clear next steps

Doctify reviews reflect HealthMatters Group client feedback across services.

How trauma therapy helps

Trauma therapy should never feel rushed or forced. We work at a pace that supports stability, choice and emotional safety.

  • Understand trauma responses without shame
  • Build grounding and stabilisation tools
  • Reduce avoidance and fear around triggers
  • Process memories, emotions or body responses safely
  • Rebuild boundaries, trust and self-compassion
  • Decide whether wider support is needed, such as psychiatry or GP liaison

Why Professionals Choose EmotionMatters

  • Senior Clinicians Experienced therapists
    forcomplex emotional
    and professional pressures.
  • Discreet &
    Confidential
    Private support for men
    who value professional,
    sensitive care.
  • Evidence-Led Therapy informed by
    psychological, relational
    and behavioural approaches.
  • Practical &
    Supportive
    Tools, insight
    and reflection
    that fit real life.
  • Whole-Person
    Care
    Integrated support
    where mental health,
    sleep, stress and physical
    wellbeing overlap.

Fees & Cadence

In your initial clinical assessment, you shape your treatment pathway with your therapist around your needs, goals and preferred pace. This can be focused short-term work over 8 sessions, or a more open-ended cadence of support.

£120 per session
£460 for a block of 4 sessions
  • Clinical Standards

We follow clear clinical standards so you know what to expect – from confidentiality and consent, to safe next steps and appropriate signposting.

  • Medical Safety

Safety Note – If you’re feeling at immediate risk of harm or having suicidal thoughts, please seek urgent support via 999/A&E, 111, or your GP.

  • Clinical Review

Content owner: James Lamper, Clinical Director
Clinically reviewed by: Dr Natascha Van Zyl, Director of Talking Therapies
Last reviewed: June 2026

How We Work

  • Clinician-led, evidence-informed support tailored to you
  • Confidential, respectful care with clear boundaries
  • Integrated support where helpful, including therapy, nutrition and medical oversight
  • Collaborative care if appropriate – we can liaise with your GP or consultant, with your permission
  • Appropriate onward signposting if you need a different type of support or higher level of care
  • Privacy and data protection – see our Privacy Policy

What is trauma?

Trauma is the lasting emotional, physical or psychological impact of experiences that felt overwhelming, frightening, violating or impossible to process at the time.

What are common signs?

Common signs include flashbacks, avoidance, hypervigilance, anxiety, numbness, shame, sleep problems, emotional swings, body tension and relationship difficulties.

How can therapy help?

Therapy helps you build safety, understand triggers, process memories or emotions at a manageable pace, reduce avoidance, and rebuild trust in yourself and others.

When should I seek urgent help?

If you feel unsafe, at risk of harm, or unable to cope, seek urgent support through 999, A&E, NHS 111, your GP or a specialist crisis service.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need a PTSD diagnosis to have trauma therapy?

No. You do not need a diagnosis to seek support for trauma-related symptoms or experiences.

Will I have to talk about everything that happened?

Not immediately. Trauma therapy should be paced carefully and collaboratively.

Can therapy help childhood trauma?

Yes. Therapy can help you understand how earlier experiences may still affect emotions, relationships, safety and self-worth.

Do you help with medical trauma?

Yes. We support people affected by frightening, painful or overwhelming medical experiences.

Can trauma affect relationships?

Yes. Trauma can affect trust, boundaries, closeness, communication and emotional regulation.

What if I feel ashamed or blame myself?

Shame and self-blame are common trauma responses. Therapy helps you approach these feelings with compassion and clarity.

Do you offer online trauma therapy?

Yes. Online therapy can be appropriate for many clients, depending on safety, privacy and clinical fit.

What happens on the discovery call?

We gently ask what kind of support you are looking for and help match you with an appropriate therapist or pathway.