Abuse & Childhood Trauma Therapy

Therapy for people living with the lasting emotional impact of abuse, neglect, difficult childhood experiences or unsafe relationships.

This page helps with:

  • Childhood trauma
  • Emotional abuse and neglect
  • Shame and self-criticism
  • Hypervigilance and trust issues
  • Emotional overwhelm or shutdown
Private therapy in London & online
Trauma-informed therapy
Senior clinicians
Confidential, evidence-led care

When The Past Still Affects The Present

You may recognise:

  • Struggle to trust people or feel emotionally safe
  • Feel highly self-critical or ashamed
  • Become overwhelmed by conflict or rejection
  • Find relationships emotionally exhausting
  • Feel emotionally numb or disconnected
  • Stay constantly alert to danger or criticism

Childhood trauma and abuse can continue shaping emotional patterns long into adult life. Therapy helps you understand these patterns with compassion and care.

Start with a free 20-minute discovery call

A relaxed conversation to explore what’s been happening, and help you find the right support.

Book a free discovery call

How Abuse & Childhood Trauma Therapy Helps

Reduce shame and self-criticism

Build emotional safety and trust

Improve regulation and grounding

Understand relationship patterns

Strengthen boundaries and confidence

Rebuild self-worth and stability

How Abuse & Childhood Trauma Therapy Works

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Create emotional safety

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Understand trauma and survival patterns

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Develop grounding and regulation tools

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Explore relationship and attachment patterns

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Build healthier emotional foundations

This pathway is personalised to you – your story, your goals and your pace.

Book a free 20-minute discovery call

How it works

  • A relaxed conversation to explore what has been happening, answer practical questions and help match you with the right therapist or pathway.
  • Choose a time that suits you.
  • Speak with our client services team.
  • Get clarity on next steps.
Confidential
Secure
No pressure

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How Therapy Helps With Childhood Trauma

Therapy helps you understand how difficult experiences may still be shaping emotions, relationships, boundaries and self-worth today.

  • Current emotional symptoms and stress responses
  • Triggers, avoidance or overwhelm
  • Sleep, anxiety and emotional regulation
  • Relationship patterns and trust difficulties
  • What currently feels difficult or unsafe
  • Goals and pacing for therapy

What To Expect In Your First Appointment

We’ll explore what’s been happening

A space to share your story, what has changed, and what you most need help with.

We’ll identify key patterns and goals

Together, we clarify what may be driving the pressure and where therapy should focus.

You’ll leave with clarity and options

You’ll have a clearer sense of next steps and how therapy could support you.

Why Professionals Choose EmotionMatters

  • Senior Clinicians Experienced in complex
    emotional distress
  • Evidence-Led Trauma-informed,
    evidence-led therapy
  • Confidential
    & Respectful
    Calm, discreet and
    confidential support
  • Integrated
    Support
    Where appropriate
  • Tailored To
    Your Pace
    Flexible London and
    online appointments

Fees & Cadence

In your initial clinical assessment, you shape your treatment pathway with your therapist around your needs, goals and preferred pace. This can be focused short-term work over 8 sessions, or a more open-ended cadence of support.

£120 per session
£460 for a block of 4 sessions
  • Clinical Standards

We follow clear clinical standards so you know what to expect – from confidentiality and consent, to safe next steps and appropriate signposting.

  • Medical Safety

Safety Note – If you’re feeling at immediate risk of harm or having suicidal thoughts, please seek urgent support via 999/A&E, 111, or your GP.

  • Clinical Review

Content owner: James Lamper, Clinical Director
Clinically reviewed by: Dr Natascha Van Zyl, Director of Talking Therapies
Last reviewed: June 2026

How We Work

  • Clinician-led, evidence-informed support tailored to you
  • Confidential, respectful care with clear boundaries
  • Integrated support where helpful, including therapy, nutrition and medical oversight
  • Collaborative care if appropriate – we can liaise with your GP or consultant, with your permission
  • Appropriate onward signposting if you need a different type of support or higher level of care
  • Privacy and data protection – see our Privacy Policy

What is childhood trauma?

Experiences that overwhelm emotional safety, stability or development.

Why early experiences continue affecting adulthood

The nervous system and emotional patterns often adapt to survive difficult environments.

How therapy helps

Therapy supports emotional safety, regulation and healthier relational patterns.

When to seek urgent support

If you feel unsafe or at immediate risk, contact 999, NHS 111 or your GP.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if my experiences don’t feel “serious enough”?

Trauma is personal.

Can childhood experiences affect adult relationships?

Yes.

What if I struggle to talk about the past?

That is completely understandable.

Can therapy help with emotional numbness?

Yes.

Is online therapy available?

Yes.